The Gardner & Healer


Isn’t that what we all say we want?


I have hit my knees begging God to heal me of depression and anxiety. But only recently have I learned what that actually means.

I just want the quick fix – the magical removal of my struggles. I want to pray a prayer and have all anxiety and depression removed immediately. I want a thunderbolt of instant healing.

But sometimes healing simply isn’t that easy.


HEAL:              /hēl/ : to become sound or healthy again

synonym: the restore to health


The Lord will heal me. I will be healthy. I will no longer be in pieces – I will be sound and whole.



BECOME:        /bəˈkəm/ : begin to be


It says “begin.” It does not say “are.” To heal means to begin to be sound or healthy again. “To heal” does not mean you are healthy; it means you are in the process of being healed.


There is a period of time between the moment when healing starts and when it is complete.


Healing is not in a thunderbolt, it is in the slow, painful process of waiting, mending, uprooting, and forgiving.

He could snap His fingers and makes every trace of depression and an anxiety disappear into thin air. But He also doesn’t have to – it may not be the best way to heal me.


Anxiety and depression are trees that whether I realize it or not, I have watered and kept alive. Their roots go deep into my heart and memories.

Anxiety and depression are weeds that pop up when I don’t expect them to. When I am finally cleaned out they reappear with seemingly no help. When one or two small sprouts are ignored, they take over our garden with persistence.

And just like the birds dropping seeds of fruit, thoughts of self doubt and self hate spread the seeds of anxiety and depression to areas in our lives they do not belong. Sprouting in my relationships, my quiet time with the Lord, and my dreams for the future – places they don’t belong.


But He is the gardener.

I don’t have to take care and monitor my heart and soul alone. I can’t do it.


So when I hit my knees and beg him to heal me – to rip out the trees, weeds, and seeds of depression and anxiety, I have to remember that it may hurt.

When you ask God to take away depression & anxiety, it has roots.The roots are intertangled with hopes and dreams.



Gardening takes time. Gardening is a process. Healing is a process. 


The memories and wounds need to be tended to. Like soil must be aerated, memories may need to be taken up and turned over to be seen in a different light. Wounds may need to be stitched up. Forgiveness may need to given.

When I am discouraged with where I am, I must remember that healing has begun. He is still molding me and restoring me back to health.




RESTORE:       /rəˈstôr/ : to bring back (a previous right or situation); reinstate


REINSTATE:   /rēinˈstāt/ : restore someone to their former position or condition


I have not always been broken. I have not always been burden by anxiety and depression. I once was healthy and whole.

He will restore me back to joy. He will bring me back to peace. He will reinstate what he originally placed in me. He will bring back my health.


He is the only one who can heal me. The only One who can up root everything that does not belong.

Only Christ can HEAL, RESTORE, and REINSTATE so I can BECOME who He created me to be.

I will trust Him with my heart and soul. It may hurt like hell, but I will praise Him through it.


And as a broken bone becomes stronger after a break, so will I.





“The Lord nurses them when they are sick and restores them to health.” (Psalm 41:3)

“O Lord my God, I cried to you for help, and you restored my health.” (Psalm 30:2)


7 Comments Add yours

  1. Desiray says:

    I am a firm believer of healing!!! God will heal you of depression. I know because twelve years ago the Lord healed me of my Nervous Depression…He will do it!!! You have to believe…

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  2. Liked your post. Gave me a lot of food for thought. People that are healing from many things could go through that same process. Healing isn’t easy. To undo some of the things that have happened to us and that we have done to ourselves is a painful process. It comes with a lot of learning how to be whole again. Interested to follow your journey.

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  3. I wish I could like this so many more times than once! As a horticulturist, who also has battled depression, and also found healing in God, I can relate on so many levels. The comparisons in the Bible to trees, fruit, seeds, etc. all relate so much to how He created nature. There is no word that was not spoken for a specific reason. I am so glad you wrote this post!

    I saw your comment on the Community Pool, so that’s why I found you. I invite you to check out my blog

    It is a center for rape and abuse victims, but there are so many people there dealing with depression, and I would love to get you involved and repost some things if you would be ok with it? Just let me know! Again, wonderful writing!

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    1. Leigh says:

      Thank you so much! I would love to! If you repost, just let me know!

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  4. thestepmomma says:

    several years ago I was in an accident that moved my spine into funny places. it means i can’t stand straight, i can’t sit for long, i gained 40 pounds, i fell into a depression that’s lasted a good 4 years (not all related to it, but definitely beginning with it.)
    during a prayer meeting, the Lord truly and honestly spoke to me and said that He would heal me. my brain took that as “SNAP, BE HEALED CHILD!” and He continued to remind me over and over with the word, “time.” “time.” “time.”
    it’s been over 4 years and your post is reminding me that healing is a process. it takes time. it’s not on my time. God hasn’t forgotten me and He won’t. He sees you too, Leigh. keep on.

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    1. Leigh says:

      I am so glad this post was able to speak to you – I pray you are comforted through your own healing process! His timing is perfect, thank you for the encouragement

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  5. Great post. I do not feel i suffer from this. But it is always interesting to read about how others feel and their battle through life. We all have one but every one is completely different. Thank you

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